Living Together Before Marriage Debunked

070604_wedding_01The February issue of Journal of Family Psychology is claiming couples who live together prior to marriage are making an unwise decision

“Cohabiting to test a relationship turns out to be associated with the most problems in relationships,” said lead researcher Galena Rhoades of the University of Denver. “Perhaps if a person is feeling a need to test the relationship, he or she already knows some important information about how a relationship may go over time.”

The study does not give a direct support toward waiting until marriage to cohabitate, but its results do give couples some encouragement to wait. For this, the study is applauded.

Thanks for the encouraging update, Chris. Meanwhile, new data, published by USAToday of all places, show that a majority of 20-24 year-old Americans approve of cohabitation. Read more about the various and sundry trends here: http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2009-07-08-living-together_N.htm

Wow! It’s interesting that USA Today would steal my headline concept and reverse the message.

I also noticed the paper references the JFP study but appears to downplay its findings about cohabitation outside of marriage.